Help, can't send MMS, but can receive and download + connect to internet.

[Piratao]

First off sorry to create a new post about this, the original one I made wasn't titled properly to get ppl to read it. It didn't state that i was looking for help, just said "here's the settings". And when i noticed i couldn't edit the title anymore.

So I need Help, I can receive and download MMSs fine & I can also connect to internet but I can't seem to send any MMS.
Here are my settings.
I can only manually put them in. I never receive the txt from hellomoto site.
I originally had O2 on my Z10 but I now have the Swisscom firmware. I'm on Fido in Canada.
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FIDO
Internet & MMS for Z10

Fido GPRS
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Fido GPRS
Account name = Fido GPRS
Address = internet.fido.ca
(Checked) User name and password required
User name = fido
Password = fido
Options>TCPIP>IP config = Automatically
IP DNS address = Automatically
(Tried with this too)
(DNS1: 204.92.15.211)
(DNS2: 204.92.15.212)

Fido WAP
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Fido WAP
Account name = Fido WAP
Address = wap.fido.ca
(Checked) User name and password required
User name = fido
Password = fido
Options>TCPIP>IP config = Automatically
IP DNS address = Automatically
Proxy>(Checked) Use proxy server
Proxy server address = 205.151.011.011
Proxy server port = 8080


Fido MMS
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Fido MMS
Account name = Fido MMS
Address = mms.fido.ca
(Unchecked) User name and password required
Options>TCPIP>IP config = Automatically
IP DNS address = Automatically
Proxy>(Checked) Use proxy server
Proxy server address = 205.151.011.013
Proxy server port = 9201

Control Panel>Internet settings> (Prefered account = Fido GPRS)

Now Msg settings> MMS account
Preset account = Other
Service center address: = mms.fido.ca
Internet account = Fido MMS
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Now when i try to send I can't seem to attach anything bigger that 20 something Ks...
I try to send files i've sent on another phone before and i get this error message: "Failed MMS - Check MMS/Internet account settings - Reason Code - 7361"
Seems to mean this: (KErrHttpGeneralHeaderMissingHost -7361 The request URI was relative, but no Host header was set to indicate a server to connect to )
If i ad the dns 1&2 numbers then i get "this message is scheduled to be sent at" a later time, but it never works...
This is the only thing not working now, I've been at this for weeks now surfing all over the web for info and this is the best I can do so far. There is 1 thing missing, i'm sure it's a simple thing but unfortunately i don't know what it is... Can anybody help me out here please. Can you see what's wrong in my settings or what's missing?
I got 2/3 of the way there my self with no direct help, just reading. But for this last part i need a hand.
My internet works it's just that from the start it tries to go to swisscom wap server page and can't find it, i just have to type in google and the page opens.

also, how can I 1: increase my mms size or picture size to send?
and 2: unlock the read only internet accounts in my settings so i can delete them. I see no option to do that.
Thanks.